I’m having trouble getting my family on board to help with my father’s care. How can I them to understand this is not a one-person show?

You’re right, in order to provide proper care for a loved one, it takes a village. Your family needs to understand this. If you don’t feel properly supported by your family members, you need to let them know about it. Work with them to figure out a coverage schedule to create opportunities for you to get the break you need for proper care. I speak more about this in my blog “These Self-Care Strategies Can Help Caregivers Cope with Burnout”. Hopefully you can find some tips there that will work well with your lifestyle.