Caregiving isn’t easy by any means. I suggest constantly reassessing your own needs along with the needs of your loved ones to get clear on what’s needed. Determine what you can move off your plate through hired help. Seek out government resources to see what you qualify for. For example, if one of your in-laws qualify for veteran benefits or Medicaid. Elder Care Locator (provide link) is a great resource for finding local agencies that provide assistance.